Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Simple steps on geting your love back

Sam spends long hours at his place of work, often after work his always exhausted and worn out before he gets home. His wife grace feels her husband is not always there for her. Grace spends most of her time attending to home chores, her husband is not always around due to his nature of work and she feels lonely and neglected and this makes the relationship worthless to both of them........ Do you find yourself in this kind of situation? Can this relationship be saved? If it can, then how? In solving this problem certain principles need to be applied.

First, you must determine the value or worth of the relationship this means that you must first determine the similarity between you both and know the strong points of the relationship .Most relationship can be saved with A MEASURE OF DEDICATION and, HARD WORK at the same time both parties must AGREE that they both would want to make it work. This becomes very important so that one does feel he/she is wasting time on the relationship
It would be a grave mistake, if you stay in a relationship or marriage because of financial reasons or other convenient reasons or may be for the sake of the children because that would not hold the marriage for long, and even if it does, it will show to every one that you are not enjoying your marriage. Saving a relationship requires, as mentioned earlier DEDICATION, and HARDWORK while realizing that the relationship is what saving.

Realizing and understanding the points above, you must then identify what the problem is; you must pinpoint the problem or problems in a relationship. One of the mistakes people make in identifying problems is believing that the problem at the surface is actually the problem but rather applying the proverb which says; ’there is no smoke without a fire’ means every existing problem has its roots from an underlying reason and solving the problem at the surface requires you digging dip and solving the problem from the scratch.

Therefore, if you have a problem in your relationship whatever what the problem might be you could start by looking beyond the surface and try finding out the root of the problem it could be issue of affair, then probably a lack of intimacy could be the problem, it could be over expectations, then it could be lack of sound communication and the wrong understanding of present conditions of both of you etc.The underlying point here is that you need to dig deep and understand where the problem is coming from and solve it from there.

When you start to deal with core issues rather than symptoms, you can save the relationship.

Identifying the root problems, means you are half way there, and then you can begin to share your thoughts. This means both voicing your own feelings and listening to your partner’s concerns. Have regular eye contact and physical touch when discussing these problems, show every sign of seriously and do not take any issue raised lightly this gives the confidence that you are interested in your partners emotional and physical needs even when your emotions are swirling.
Once you have understood the problems in your relationship, then decide to solve them by taking real and concrete steps in solving them, establish an action plan to solve them. If lack of communication is the problem, then plan on particular days with specific time which both of you will devote to talking to each other. Always consider suggestion of your partner and do not dismiss them casually. Always make sure to follow your plan at all times, and remember, mistakes might be made but never give up as there are great benefits to be enjoyed it.

Finally, you should realize that saving a relationship is an ongoing process. You are going to take two steps forward only to take one step back. There is going to be both laughter and tears going forward. Be quick to apologize and slow to anger or taking offence when your partner says something hurtful

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life, and frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to a book when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

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