A love breakup in a relationship is quiet painful, you might have experienced this or know someone who might have, how did you feel I mean your emotional, and psychological turmoil I can really relate with you on that because I have passed through such period of time and I tell you I wouldn’t wish it for anyone.
But from my experience I have come to find out that certain things I could have done which I didn’t do……… or let me put this way certain signs which I should have noticed which were a pointer to an impending breakup was ignored by me. I hope my sharing this with you could go a long way in improving your relationship. If you’ll remember these signs and keep them in mind, they can help you prevent a break up in the future. And they can also help you get back together after a split.
Lack OF Physical Contact: One sure sign of impending love break up is the lack of physical contact. This doesn’t just mean sex. At times my partner suddenly stops having an interest in sex, which is a good sign that a break up is coming. But you should realize that normal flow and rhythm of a relationship has period of low and high period of sex. This is natural. But more there are more important signs than that
A love break up is probably on the horizon, if for instance your partner stops holding your hand for no apparent reason. Or probably he or she stops putting an arm over your shoulder at the movies or in public places where he or she regularly does. So be vigilant if such changes are occurring. Remember only touching you at the bedroom will not suffice, but other regular places where he or she normally touches you before. Therefore, any sudden changes like not touching you much outside the bedroom when your partner was always very affectionate before could signal problems.
More serious problem exists if your partner becomes highly uncomfortable with your touch. If this begins to happen then you need to act fast you need to definitely have a conversation with your partner about what’s going on? Don’t just assume anything, at times many things can cause a person to not want to be touched at any given moment and the best way to determine this is to have a serious discussion with him or her.
Here is some situation that you might consider before you determine if love breakup is imminent or not
At times your partner might have been thinking of something else and becomes surprised or startled by your touch.
At times, your partner might think that your touch could mean demand for sex which he or she might not be ready for and decides to move away. Now such occasional actions might generally not mean there’s an impending love breakup, but be vigilant if this action becomes regular, and if this is the case then you need to have discussion with him
Your partner might simply not feel good. Every change in a person’s behavior doesn’t signal an impending love break up or even anything wrong with the relationship. You have to watch them closely for a while to determine if some behavior is an occasional thing or not
Lying: Catching your partner lying, even what seem like small and harmless ones, could be a sign of problems, too? Where there’s one tiny lie, larger and more damaging lies can grow. Although some lie don’t mean any harm such as surprise parties and reunions. Your partner might be trying to keep a harmless and fun secret like that, instead of scheming about a love break up. But when you notice such is becoming serious such as lying about his or her movements or double dating etc. Then you need to have a discussion with your partner
Public insults: One convincing way to determine if love breakup is imminent is if your partner constantly insults you in the public, this is done with the aim of downgrading you or showing you that you are no longer important. Although this the extreme case but at times it does happen and always certain signal would have been showing (such as the ones discussed earlier) before it gets to this which is why you must be vigilant
This are some points you like to consider, to avoid love breakup. But at times love breakup could be as a result of your actions or in actions in your relationships……….
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